|My "Hear No Evil, See No Evil, Speak No Evil" Buddhas|
And because I possessed various Asian symbols/items and Buddhas, the room somehow got nicknamed the "Kabuki Room" which is funny because it has nothing to do with Japanese theater (the meaning of Kabuki). Though I do have a few authentic Japanese items thanks to my grandmother, who lived in Japan back in the late 1940's early 1950's when my grandfather, who was in the Air Force was stationed there.
|He was made in Japan in 1946 - he used to carry the fish but the ropes broke :(|
Anyway, this room was all mine. But here's what happened...it slowly started becoming everyone else's room. My husband would nap in there and my son Matt would play in it. Then a couple years ago I decided to just give up the room altogether and let Matt have it. There was a 46-inch HDTV in there, so Matt could play his Nintendo Wii, Sony Playstation 2, and eventually Sony Playstation 3. This way he could have a room to hang with his friends and chill in. The family room was pretty much my husband's room or den. And since we didn't have a basement, I felt giving it up was the right 'mom' thing to do.
But over the past year or so, I have missed my Kabuki Room. I missed everything about it and what it stood for. Plus I had all my 'kabuki' stuff in the dining room or packed away cause I no longer had room for it. If I practice yoga, I do it upstairs in the bedroom. I also do most of my writing up there as well. Whereas I used to write a lot in the Kabuki Room.
|My little bookshelf of Zen|
Well, this past Thanksgiving, Matt informed us that he really wanted the PS3 and all of his things up in his bedroom. Now that he's 13, he wants more privacy and honestly the selfish-me was fine with that. Cause that meant I was getting my room back. YAY!!!
Of course, the 46-inch HDTV along with the Comcast digital cable box went up into Matt's bedroom too. Which I now refer to as MTV Cribs cause the kid is seriously hooked up. It's actually kind of funny, since the room is the size of a thimble. But if he's happy and I'm happy, its ALL good!
I'm so excited! Because lately, I DEFINITELY need to de-stress and regroup. And what better place to do it in, but my Kabuki Room. Namaste.